It's just after 8 am. I have cinnamon rolls cooling on top of the stove, freshly baked and smelling so wonderful. The coffee is done, first pot I've made in many weeks. The dogs have already been walked this morning and I am looking at the prospect of a lazy Saturday morning for the first time, well, almost since 2004. No where I have to be today. No where I have to run. No student activities to pull me away from home. As I sit here with no TV or radio on, enjoying the silence, the occasional sound of a bird from outside the window, once more I am stuck with how contented I am here.
I never expected nor wanted to live my life alone. I always pictured myself married to a businessman with both of us ending up as workaholics. Well, I guess I got part of it right. I do spend too much time at work, but never did I anticipate that I could be happy just being alone.
There are times when the desire for companionship still brings tears. It still hurts that it didn't work out, but the great daily angst has subsided into a quiet peace. Unexpected but very appreciated.
I hope it lasts. LOL
In the meantime, my muse, which has been absent, seems to be returning so I may actually get some writing done today. Plus the mundane beckons: Housecleaning, laundry, cooking, puttering around the house. All tasks which seem to make me smile this morning. Wouldn't it be lovely if this type of happiness could be marketed? Enable us to truly just enjoy the smaller things and not yearn for what we can't or shouldn't have?
Did I mention the cardinal that came to visit when I took the dogs out? I've been toying with the thought of cutting down some bushes in my back yard but I think I'm going to do that with great caution. It seems the cardinals and blue jays enjoy their cover. And I enjoy the birds so...one more thing that brings a smile today. I'm envisioning summers on the patio with a cup of coffee, the morning paper, and the sounds of birds feeding at their new feeder.
Pollyanna is back. Welcome home, girl.
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